27. A quote you try to live by.
Two quotes I adore greatly, and which I try to keep at heart.
The first, from the play, Lady Windemere’s Fan, by Oscar Wilde: “We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.” I first heard this—paraphrased—in a Pretenders song, back in 1982. And I immediately fell in love with it: the desire to reach beyond misery, past pettiness and squalor…
Yes, Mr. Wilde was being a little arch when he wrote it. But there is a sense of longing, behind the archness, past the irony.
The other quote comes from the Leonard Cohen song, “Stories of the Street”: “We are so small between the stars, so large against the sky.” I suppose what makes that so dear is the paradox of who I am, how I am, in comparison to the world around me.